Happiness and peace are not the same:
We are always confused to understand the difference between happiness and peace. We always like to be happy without peace. We all want to increase happiness forever in our lives. But the truth is that In our mind without peace, eternal happiness is not valuable to us. For an example, We want to be happy depending on getting a job, relationship, success, money, name/fame, car, house, the behavior of others etc. These are just stimulus which creates a response in the mind depending on our mind programming. Happiness depends on a variety of thoughts. Through different means, whether it’s through possessions, through objects, through the property, through people, through achievements. Just keep asking yourself, “Why do I want this?” “And this?”
If you ask someone, “What do you want?” They would say, “Success.”
“Why do you want success?” “Because it makes me feel happy.”
“Why do you want to buy this?” They say, “It makes me and my family feel happy.” “What do you get out of this relationship?” “Happiness.” So finally, everyone is looking for that one word "HAPPINESS". this happiness is momentary. Like a kid playing with a toy, and when it breaks, he needs to have another.So what are we searching for? If we are looking for happiness, then it should be permanent.Truly, perpetual is generally imperative. On the off chance that it is something that I like, that I want, and if it's something that comes normally to me, at that point it won't be reliant on whatever else outside. Supposing that it's reliant on something, at that point it can never be constant.Now the question is How might you have something you want and not be needy? It's very simple, In case you're searching for it outside someplace, at that point we are reliant on something. Suppose I feel better if the climate is pleasant. At that point, my inclination great is reliant on the climate. happiness without a desire is called PEACE. Now I am talking about Peace, where you also can get unlimited Happiness. Where you can remove your mental stress. That is most likely one of the most established conviction frameworks that we have been living with for quite a while, in light of the fact that we thought satisfaction is to be "got" from outside. Regardless of whether it's from accomplishments, or from individuals, or from whatever we do. "I'm doing this with the goal that I will feel upbeat" was dependably the condition. "At the point when it's set, and it's done in the correct way, I will feel upbeat." Obviously, the reliance is on having the demonstration performed in the correct way. Appropriate from youth, the tyke is prepared by the guardians to feel: "When you get great checks or play out this, I will feel cheerful." "When you look great, I will feel Happy." First, let’s see where we are dependent. Let’s begin with the simplest layers. These are deep layers — dependence on performance or people — but the simplest dependency — which we experience the whole day — is on objects. “I will feel happy when I buy a new car . . . or a new property.” Even a simple thing: “I’m happy when I go shopping.” Now the question may arise among you that, What’s wrong in this? Isn’t this natural? You will feel happy when you have a new car, but is it the new car that is giving you happiness which is important. “I will feel happy when I have a new car.” Which means, if I don’t, then it’s a question mark. It additionally implies that ten days not far off, if the car gets a little scratch, or a little knock, of course, my satisfaction will get influenced. Since I have adapted myself into trusting that the car is giving me satisfaction — which is not true.You buy a new car, it could be the most expensive car in the world. You sit in the car; it's exceptionally decent, extremely agreeable. It's the body. It has great seats, a flawless music framework, a ground-breaking motor, intense A/C . . . Physical solace. You are happy with sitting in the car, thus you let yourself know "you're feeling better." Just around then, assume you get a phone call . . . saying something unsavory has happened someplace at home. Will you still be happy? Be that as it may, You are as yet agreeable. You are still in the car. The car was intended to give you physical solace, and it will give you physical solace — regardless. Anything which is physical is designed to give us physical comfort. We told ourselves, “This gives us happiness.” Here the happiness is depending on your physical comfort. This kind of happiness is always increased and you never peaceful in your mind. We were conditioned into it right from childhood. So we’ve grown up with it. Now we need to question our belief system. The happiness of your physical comfort is not constant. It does not bring peace to your mind. The motivation behind why there is so little satisfaction on the planet is the reliance. Satisfaction isn't reliant on 'anything' or 'anybody' or found 'anyplace.' We continue deferring our bliss until the point when things are perfect in our life. We figure we will be upbeat later on and after that ask why we are not cheerful at this point. Happiness is just conceivable when we can acknowledge everybody as they may be, at each minute, in each circumstance. That implies a conclusion to judging or opposing others, a conclusion to whining and faulting, a conclusion to condemning and controlling and a conclusion to contending with anybody. Happiness implies the enlivening and acknowledgment of self-obligation. It is just when we pick considerations and emotions that are lined up with our actual nature of virtue, peace, and love that we can move – from asking for sharing; from clutching giving up; from desires to acknowledgment; from the past and the future to being in the now. We can make a real existence of happiness, satisfaction, and joy since we have the decision and the power. Happiness is a choice. This kind of Happiness is internal, it is not depending on physical comfort or any other objects which are external. This kind of Happiness increases your Peace level in your mind.
If you ask someone, “What do you want?” They would say, “Success.”
“Why do you want success?” “Because it makes me feel happy.”
“Why do you want to buy this?” They say, “It makes me and my family feel happy.” “What do you get out of this relationship?” “Happiness.” So finally, everyone is looking for that one word "HAPPINESS". this happiness is momentary. Like a kid playing with a toy, and when it breaks, he needs to have another.So what are we searching for? If we are looking for happiness, then it should be permanent.Truly, perpetual is generally imperative. On the off chance that it is something that I like, that I want, and if it's something that comes normally to me, at that point it won't be reliant on whatever else outside. Supposing that it's reliant on something, at that point it can never be constant.Now the question is How might you have something you want and not be needy? It's very simple, In case you're searching for it outside someplace, at that point we are reliant on something. Suppose I feel better if the climate is pleasant. At that point, my inclination great is reliant on the climate. happiness without a desire is called PEACE. Now I am talking about Peace, where you also can get unlimited Happiness. Where you can remove your mental stress. That is most likely one of the most established conviction frameworks that we have been living with for quite a while, in light of the fact that we thought satisfaction is to be "got" from outside. Regardless of whether it's from accomplishments, or from individuals, or from whatever we do. "I'm doing this with the goal that I will feel upbeat" was dependably the condition. "At the point when it's set, and it's done in the correct way, I will feel upbeat." Obviously, the reliance is on having the demonstration performed in the correct way. Appropriate from youth, the tyke is prepared by the guardians to feel: "When you get great checks or play out this, I will feel cheerful." "When you look great, I will feel Happy." First, let’s see where we are dependent. Let’s begin with the simplest layers. These are deep layers — dependence on performance or people — but the simplest dependency — which we experience the whole day — is on objects. “I will feel happy when I buy a new car . . . or a new property.” Even a simple thing: “I’m happy when I go shopping.” Now the question may arise among you that, What’s wrong in this? Isn’t this natural? You will feel happy when you have a new car, but is it the new car that is giving you happiness which is important. “I will feel happy when I have a new car.” Which means, if I don’t, then it’s a question mark. It additionally implies that ten days not far off, if the car gets a little scratch, or a little knock, of course, my satisfaction will get influenced. Since I have adapted myself into trusting that the car is giving me satisfaction — which is not true.You buy a new car, it could be the most expensive car in the world. You sit in the car; it's exceptionally decent, extremely agreeable. It's the body. It has great seats, a flawless music framework, a ground-breaking motor, intense A/C . . . Physical solace. You are happy with sitting in the car, thus you let yourself know "you're feeling better." Just around then, assume you get a phone call . . . saying something unsavory has happened someplace at home. Will you still be happy? Be that as it may, You are as yet agreeable. You are still in the car. The car was intended to give you physical solace, and it will give you physical solace — regardless. Anything which is physical is designed to give us physical comfort. We told ourselves, “This gives us happiness.” Here the happiness is depending on your physical comfort. This kind of happiness is always increased and you never peaceful in your mind. We were conditioned into it right from childhood. So we’ve grown up with it. Now we need to question our belief system. The happiness of your physical comfort is not constant. It does not bring peace to your mind. The motivation behind why there is so little satisfaction on the planet is the reliance. Satisfaction isn't reliant on 'anything' or 'anybody' or found 'anyplace.' We continue deferring our bliss until the point when things are perfect in our life. We figure we will be upbeat later on and after that ask why we are not cheerful at this point. Happiness is just conceivable when we can acknowledge everybody as they may be, at each minute, in each circumstance. That implies a conclusion to judging or opposing others, a conclusion to whining and faulting, a conclusion to condemning and controlling and a conclusion to contending with anybody. Happiness implies the enlivening and acknowledgment of self-obligation. It is just when we pick considerations and emotions that are lined up with our actual nature of virtue, peace, and love that we can move – from asking for sharing; from clutching giving up; from desires to acknowledgment; from the past and the future to being in the now. We can make a real existence of happiness, satisfaction, and joy since we have the decision and the power. Happiness is a choice. This kind of Happiness is internal, it is not depending on physical comfort or any other objects which are external. This kind of Happiness increases your Peace level in your mind.
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