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November 25, 2018

THE SIGNS OF DEVOTION

The signs of devotion






 INTRODUCTION:


Swami Vivekananda has given many explanations about devotion in his book “bhakti yoga”.
I am analyzing as much as I can evaluate. If there is any mistake, apologize for that. I'm hoping if someone studies properly, maybe he can find a new light in his life. In today's society, everyone understands the definition of devotion, but few people understand the devotional analysis. Swamiji always looked into God among all creatures of nature and devoted himself to his service through devotion. Still, a handful of people have devoted themselves to the services of all creatures through devotion. This is a very good medium for all the nation. Now the question is if the human is getting closer to God through devotion, why do some people fail? For this reason, we should really understand the devotion of the Swamiji. here you can get the views of various philosophers and great devotees about devotion. the definition of devotion and the analyzation of devotion are not the same. first, you should analysis about devotion, after that you must define it. swamiji highlights all views of varieties philosophers and great devotees about devotion. Maybe they have separate views as per separate era, but the basic thing is very much common. Which has been explained. Here you can get only about Devotion. you may are be belonging to other religion or you have any other worshiped god, to whom you worship. That worship is possible with absolute devotion. So the basic thing is Devotion. I believe that the basic devotion is the same in every holy book, it doesn't matter in what religion you are belonging to. You can also follow the way of Devotion for your god.
In this book, I just want to tell you about the sign of Devotion. What are the symptoms of a devotee? Nowadays what we are thinking about Devotion? Can we get closer to our god by this Devotion as per our ambition in human life? If you believe that God lives in every creature in this world, then why we can’t realize him? The only reason is lack of Devotion. That is why I am telling you about the analyzing of Devotion. It can purify your soul                                                                                                                                                                                                                         -Sudipta Chakraborty.


The signs of devotion:
God is frankly searching for devotion. Affection its original, middle and end. Divine love comes from freedom of love. Narad has said in his devotion, 'God is the only one who is full of love'. If it is received, the creature is Love ban and hate zero in everything and is satisfied for eternity.No one can benefit by the wish from this affection because this love does not arise when there is content. Due to action, knowledge and joining the devotees, they are the targets of their goal, but they are worthwhile and devoted.
All the great people of our country have discussed the devotional theory. Even though Shandilya, Narada gave away the speeches of Bhakti, the great commentator of Bisasutra, which clearly shows the knowledge-based support, has also given many hints about devotion. Not all of them, although the interest of explaining the sources in the sense of the most sensible sense is a commentator, their explanation cannot be easily explained if the sources of the formulas - especially worship-related sources, are neutrally searched.
Generally, people think that there is a difference between knowledge and devotion, it is not really that. In a gradual sense, knowledge and devotion meet together in the same goal. Unfortunately, in the name of cheating and entrapment, the rajas are often used for dusting in the eyes of inexperienced people. So also is it with Raja-
Yoga, which, when pursued as a means to attain liberation, and not ( as unfortunately it frequently becomes in the hands
of charlatans and mystery-mongers) as an instrument to
hoodwink the unwary, leads us also to the same goal.

There are two types of devotion among different people. 1) Higher level devotion and 2) Low-level devotion.If there is a high level of devotion then the best for the person.This is the most simple and natural way of reaching our ultimate goal to God. But fear is the low level of devotion.In today's society, there is a lot of low-level devotion. This devotion often takes the form of a terrible dogma.Among Hindus, Muslims, and Christianity, this dogma is very much in number. That true love without God's devotion does not grow, and sometimes it is the main reason for the intense attack and blame on all other opinions. All the religions and all the weak and weak people of the country can love their own idals in the only way. That is the way we love our own ideals and hate the other ideology. This is because of the reason that people who are devoted to their God, ideological ideology, heard or talk about other ideals, why are they shouting like a start. This kind
Of love is somewhat like the canine instinct of guarding the master’s property from intrusion; only, the instinct of the dog is better than the reason of man, for the dog never mistakes its master for an enemy in whatever dress he may come before it.The bigoted person lost all the power of justice.The personal point of view so much that what a person is saying is true or false; They don't think they need a hearing or buzz, But the people of this class are very kind to the powerful person.The people of this class support the strong people even if they are wrong or false. The person who is compassionate and Upright on these powerful people He wants to hurt all the people outside his community.This fear is only on the lower level of a devotion.this stage is called “GOUNI” When devotion is turned into supreme (পরাভক্তি), Then there is no such type of orthodoxy. Under this supreme devotion, the devotee comes so close to God that he does not have any hatred.It is not possible to make life with all the adjustments in this life.A great character is, where knowledge, devotion, and yoga are present in it.now What should be the specialty of high-level devotion?First of all, a person should leave his arrogance. how could it be possible? it is very easy to find out.for example, I meet every day with many people in the surroundings around me. they may be the good or bad persons. that is not important to me, but I realized one thing that everybody always wants to show how much great he is.If a big mind helps someone it's a very good thing, But when they want to make a reputation for this help in the society, It can never be a selfless worship. And otherwise, selfless devotion can never be possible without selfless worship. If such people are respected then they are happy with their society.Again they cannot be commendable from society when they help a lot to helpless people. They are very sad in their minds. They always express their grief to the loved ones. If you think that God's position is in all the creations of the world and if you want to search the god through their service then I am sorry to say that, this is not the right way to wake up in the devotional mind. first of all, you must think about selfless thought.when u do anything selflessly, yours thought never comes to you that you are a loser person or not.if this type of thought comes to your mind, then you never understand about real devotion. You must understand one thing that you don’t have anything in your hand in the world.Submitting yourself to God. give up self-seeking thought. Remember your only identification is your soul.your body is only the cover of your soul. Which has been identified by your name, address, religion etc.if you submitting yourself to god, Your soul will be purified by itself. From there, you can find God among the creatures.Only then you can dedicate yourself to them selflessly.the high level of devotion comes after that. Three things are necessary for a bird to fly—the two wings and the tail as a rudder for steering. gyana (knowledge) is the one wing, Bhakti (love) is to the other, and Yoga is the tail that keeps up the balance. For those who cannot pursue all these three forms of worship together in harmony, and take up, therefore, Bhakti alone as their way, it is necessary always to remember that forms and ceremonials, though absolutely necessary for the progressive soul, have no other value than taking us on to that state in which we feel the most intense love to God. SHRI RAMKRISHNA, the Guru of SWAMI VIVEKANANDA told about real devotion of god that, there are three things which are the symbol of real love in this world, i) the love of a Chaste wife for her husband 2) love of worldly-minded people for his wealth and 3) love of a mother for her child. If these three types of love can be united for the worship of the God and by the mixing of this three type of loves, that kind of devotion is originated, This is the real and high-level devotion. The only way to get God by this devotion.There is a little difference in opinion between the teachers of knowledge and those of love, though both admit the power of devotion. The Jnânis hold Bhakti to be an instrument of liberation; the devotees look upon it both as the instrument and the thing to be attained. To my mind, this is a distinction without much difference. In fact, Devotion, when used as an instrument, really means a lower form of worship, and the higher form becomes inseparable from the lower form of realization at a later stage. Each seems to lay a great stress upon his own peculiar method of worship, forgetting that with the perfect love true knowledge is bound to come even unsought and that from perfect knowledge true love is inseparable. Now let's see, what the Vedantic commentators said about this topic. In explaining the Sutra Avrittirasakridupadeshat, Lord Shankara says, “Thus people say, ‘He is devoted to the king, he is devoted to the Guru’; they say this of him who follows his Guru and does so, having that following as the one end in view. Similarly, they say, ‘The loving wife
meditates on her loving husband’; here also a kind of eager and, continuous remembrance is meant.” This is devotion according to Lord Sankara. If you love something or somebody by your heart and soul, there is the real devotion is generated from your heart and soul on this particular person or thing. If a person loves his king or if a chaste loves her husband both examples are the real symbol of devotion. Meditation again is a constant remembrance (of the thing
meditated upon), flowing like an unbroken stream of oil poured out from one vessel to another. When this kind of remembering has been attained (in relation to God) all bondage break. Thus it is spoken of in the scriptures regarding constant remembering as a means to liberation.This remembering again is of the same form as seeing, because it is of the same meaning as in the passage, ‘When He who is far and near is seen, the bonds of the heart are broken, all doubts vanish, and all effects of work disappear.’ He who is near can be seen, but he who is far can only be remembered. Nevertheless, the scripture says that we have to see Him who is near as well as Him who is far, thereby, indicating to us that the above kind of remembering is as good as seeing.This remembrance when exalted assumes the same form as seeing. Worship is constant remembering as may be seen from the essential texts of scriptures. Knowing, which is the same as repeated worship, has been described as constant remembering. . . . Thus the memory, which has attained to the height of what is as good as direct perception, is spoken of in the Shruti as a means of liberation. ‘This Soul is not to be reached through various sciences, nor by intellect, nor by many studies of the Vedas. Whomsoever this Soul desires, by him is the Soul attained, unto him this Soul discovers Himself.’ Here, after saying that mere hearing, thinking, and meditating are not the means of attaining this Soul, it is said, ‘Whom this Soul desires, by him the Soul is attained.’ The extremely beloved is desired; by whomsoever, this Soul is extremely beloved; he becomes the most beloved of the Soul. So that this beloved may attain the Soul, the Lord Himself helps. For it has been said by the Lord: ‘Those
who are constantly attached to Me and worship Me with love—I give that direction to their will by which they come to Me.’ Therefore it is said that to whomsoever this remembering, which is of the same form as direct perception, is very dear because it is dear to the Object of such memory-perception, he is desired by the Supreme Soul, by him the Supreme Soul is attained. This constant remembrance is denoted by the word Devotion. This is said by the lord RAMANUJA in the sutra of ‘Athato Brahma Jijnasa’ ( অথাতো ব্রহ্মজিজ্ঞাসা ).

In commenting on the Sutra of Patanjali ‘ISHWAR PRANAMISTHA (ঈশ্বরপ্রানাধিষ্ঠা)’, Bhoja says, “Pranidhana is that sort of Bhakti in which, without seeking results, such as sense-enjoyments, etc., all works are dedicated to that Teacher of teachers.” Bhagavan Vyasa
also, when commenting on the same, defines Pranidhâna as “the form of Bhakti by which the mercy of the Supreme Lord comes to the Yogi and blesses him by granting him his desires.” According to Shandilya, “Bhakti is intense love to God.” The best definition is, however, that given by the king of devotee Prahlad. That deathless love which the ignorant have for the fleeting objects of the senses—as I keep meditating on Thee—may not that (sort of intense) love (for Thee) slip away from my heart!” Love! For whom? For the Supreme Lord Ishwara. Love for any other being, however great, cannot be Devotion; for, as Ramanuja says in his Shri-Bhâshya
quoting an ancient Acharya, i.e. a great teacher: “From Brahmâ to a clump of grass, all things that live in the world are slaves of birth and death caused by Karma; therefore they cannot be helpful as objects of meditation, because they are all in ignorance and subject to change.”In commenting on the word Anurakti used by Shandilya, the commentator Swapneshwara says that it means Anu after and Devotion attachment; i.e. the attachment, which comes of. after the knowledge of the nature and glory of God; else a blind attachment to anyone, e.g. to wife or children would be Bhakti. We plainly see, therefore, that Bhakti is a series or succession of mental efforts at religious realization beginning with ordinary worship and ending in a supreme intensity of love for the God.



November 25, 2018

Some best mysterious disappearances of famous persons.

 mysterious disappearances.


here we will discuss about some famous persons Whose death is a terrific mystery. Nobody knows about their particular date of death. Their death is determined From the date of their disappearance. there is always a disagreement for not identifying their dead bodies. Historians are still researching in this regard.

1)  Amelia Earhart: 

Amelia Airhart's name comes first in the mysterious death. She was the first woman to cross the Atlantic Ocean by plane in 1928. she was a truly an inspirational woman. She had a very successful career as a pilot. She also became the first person to fly solo from Hawaii to the United States mainland in 1935. On July 2, 1937. It was the last time Earhart was seen alive.




Their flight started on March 17, 1937, yet after some underlying specialized issues, they ceased over in Hawaii for a few repairs. Following three days, they wanted to proceed with their excursion, however as they were taking off, Earhart lost control of the plane, smashing on the runway. They repaired the plane once more and reembarked. A few months into their voyage, Earhart and her team vanished. Earhart and Noonan departed Lae for tiny Howland Island—their next refueling stop—on July 2, 1937. She and Noonan lost radio contact with the U.S. Coast Guard cutter Itasca, anchored off the coast of Howland Island, and disappeared en route. President Franklin D. Roosevelt authorized a massive two-week search for the pair, but they were never found. On July 19, 1937, Earhart and Noonan were declared lost at sea. There are various Doctrines about Earhart's vanishing. Many speculate that Earhart was a spy.

Earhart, Amelia


Earhart, AmeliaAmelia Earhart in the cockpit of a Lockheed Electra airplane.New York World-Telegram and the Sun Newspaper Photograph Collection/Library of Congress, Washington, D.C. (LC-USZC4-2758)


Amelia Earhart after becoming the first woman to make a solo nonstop transcontinental flight across the United States, August 24–25, 1932.


BornAmelia Mary Earhart
July 24, 1897
Atchison, Kansas, U.S.DisappearedJuly 2, 1937 (aged 39)
The Pacific Ocean, en route to Howland Island from LaePapua New Guinea


2. Harold Holt:

Harold Holt, 1966


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August 5, 1908
SydneyAustralia
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December 17, 1967 (aged 59)
VictoriaAustralia
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Mr. Harold Holt was the 17th prime ministers of Australia. His death was also very mysterious. Mr. Harold went swimming 50 years prior and vanished for eternity. In any case, exactly what occurred on Dec. 17, 1967, when the seventeenth PM of Australia, Harold Holt, go for a swim at Cheviot Beach close Portsea, Victoria. After watching British round-the-world sailor Alec Rose arriving at Port Phillip Bay, with a group of friends, Mr. Holt suggested they head for a swim before lunch. After that, he never came back again.


Former Australian prime minister Harold Holt


Harold Holt on the beach with his daughters in law, circa 1966



The reality was rather more mundane and far less thrilling. Certainly, Harold Holt was charming, an attractive, youthful-looking 59-year-old, who had replaced Sir Robert Menzies as leader of the Liberal party and prime minister barely two years earlier. He had been on the beach with his “good friend and neighbor” Marjorie Gillespie, his wife Zara having remained in Canberra that weekend, and it was Gillespie watching on the beach as Holt’s silver hair disappeared without even a wave or sign of distress. According to Zara Holt, this was nothing unusual – “he was having affairs everywhere” – and it was also why there was no bodyguard with Holt at the time: “He made a big thing of never having a guard anywhere near him.
His body was never recovered. His disappearance triggered a range of speculation about connections to political intrigue, personal scandal, and international intervention,” much of which has persisted for 50 years.

3. Jimmy Hoffa:

Jimmy Hoffa may be the most famous disappeared man in history, and these theories suggest he suffered one of history's most gruesome deaths.


Jimmy Hoffa



By now, it's been well established that Teamsters kingpin Jimmy Hoffa was offed by the mob after vanishing from the parking lot of a restaurant in suburban Detroit on July 30, 1975. But for decades, even after the super-corrupt union leader was declared dead in absentia a full eight years later, the question remains: what in the hell did they do with his body? On July 30, 1975, he disappeared from a restaurant in suburban Detroit under circumstances that have never been fully determined. He was legally declared “presumed dead” in 1982.

born James Riddle Hoffa
February 14, 1913
Brazil, IndianaDisappearedJuly 30, 1975 (aged 62)
Bloomfield Township, Oakland County, Michigan

4.Bison Dele:

Bison Dele was a former NBA player. Mysterious Death Of Bison Dele was very painful to his fans. That fateful voyage began on July 6, 2002, from the Tahitian harbor town of Papeete, headed for an island called Raiatea, and then, ultimately, Hawaii. On board were Dele, his brother, Kevin, himself having changed his name to Miles Dabord, his girlfriend Erica Weise, Serena Karlan (dale's girlfriend), and Bertrand Saldo, the boat's captain. Over the next 48 hours, three phone calls coming from the boat were logged.


Bison Dele


But starting on July 8, all communications with the boat ceased. What actually took place on the boat will never be known. Erica Weise told the Los Angeles Times that Dabord and Dele were fighting and Dele's girlfriend Serena Karlan was fatally injured when she tried to break up the altercation. Bertrand Saldo, the watercraft's skipper, was then slaughtered by Dele in light of the fact that the chief needed to report Karlan's demise to specialists, said Weise. Dele and Dabord continued to fight, and Dabord shot and killed Dele in self-defense, said Weise. She told the newspaper that Dabord said he weighted the three bodies and dumped them overboard. Anyways none of the bodies have been recovered. What actually happened on that boat? We will never know, as Dabord took all his secrets with him. After telling his grisly tale, Dabord left Weise and fled to Mexico, while the horrified Weise contacted the Sonoma County Sherrif's Department, who in turn reached out to the FBI.


Bison Dele




5. Jim Thompson:


Jim Thompson was born into a privileged life. Born in 1906 to a wealthy family in Delaware, in the United States, Thompson was privy to a high-class education at Princeton University, as well as studying architecture at the University of Pennsylvania. in 1940, he enlisted in the Delaware National Guard. Thompson eventually landed a position with the Office of Strategic Services (OSS), the predecessor to the CIA, which sent him to Thailand just as World War II was ending. After that, he settled in Thailand, turned businessman, and helped revive the Thai silk industry. On March 26, 1967, the 61 years old Jim Thomson was holidaying with friends at a cottage in the cool of Malaysia's Cameron Highlands. Jim Thompson went off for a walk in Malaysia's Cameron Highlands, 140 miles north of Kuala Lumpur at an elevation of 5,000 ft., while on vacation with several others including his close friend Constance Mangskau, Singaporean-Chinese chemist Ling Tien, and Tien's wife Helen Ling. only meant to take a short stroll to get some fresh air, but he would not return and has indeed never been seen again.


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BornJames Harrison Wilson Thompson
21 March 1906
GreenvilleDelawareU.S.Disappeared26 March 1967 (aged 61)
Cameron HighlandsPahangMalaysia



6. Sean Flynn:

Sean Flynn was a popular Freelance photojournalist and son of famous Hollywood actor Errol Flynn. Disappeared April 1970 in Cambodia at the age of 28. On April 6, 1970, Flynn and fellow photojournalist Dana Stone were leaving the Cambodian capital of Phnom Penh when they got word of a checkpoint on Highway One manned by the Viet Cong, the Vietnamese communist soldiers. Stone and Flynn took off for the highway on motorcycles to get a firsthand look on the way to a press conference in Saigon. now Saigon is Ho Chi Minh City. After that Flynn and his colleague, journalist Dana Stone mysteriously disappeared. For 40 years, the world has wondered what happened to remove these vivacious, talented men permanently from the world.


One of Flynn’s photos: A captured Viet Cong being tortured. (1966):



Though Flynn’s and Stone’s guts are undeniable, not everyone appreciated their methods. “Dana Stone and Sean Flynn [son of the Hollywood actor, Errol Flynn] were straight out of Easy Rider, riding around on motorcycles carrying pearl-handled pistols. Cowboys, really,” said fellow photog Don McCullin. “I think they did more harm than good to our profession.”

BornSean Leslie Flynn
May 31, 1941
Los AngelesCalifornia U.S.
DisappearedApril 6, 1970 (aged 28)
Highway OneCambodia
StatusDeclared dead in absentia, 1984
DiedJune 1971?

7. Richey Edwards:

Manic Street Preachers guitarist and singer-songwriter Richey Edwards disappeared on February 1, 1995, the day he was due to jet off to the United States on a promotional tour. To this day his disappearance remains a mystery. It is widely believed that Richey jumped from the Severn Bridge - a known suicide location - to his death But, in the years since he vanished, there have been several reported sightings of the musician around the world. Fans claim to have seen him in Goa, Lanzarote, and Fuerteventura, though none of the sightings have ever been verified. On February 1, 1995, Richey checks out of the Embassy hotel and is never seen again. It is certain that he drives to his flat in Cardiff where he leaves some things before driving away again. By some accounts, he does not enter Wales for eight hours after leaving the hotel.
Manic Street Preachers' guitarist Richey Edwards live in 1992
Manic Street Preachers' guitarist Richey Edwards live in 1992 Credit: Getty.
Richey Edwards in the NME offices, 1992
Richey Edwards in the NME offices, 1992
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Edwards disappeared on 1 February 1995, on the day when he and James Dean Bradfield were due to fly to the US on a promotional tour. In the two weeks before his disappearance, Edwards withdrew £200 a day from his bank account, which totaled £2,800 by the day of the scheduled flight. Some speculated that he needed the money for the American trip, and it was also mentioned he'd ordered a new desk for his flat from a shop in Cardiff— although there was no record of that having been paid for (plus, this would have only explained half of the money withdrawn). According to Emma Forrest, as quoted in A Version Of Reason, 'the night before he disappeared Edwards gave a friend a book called 'novel with cocaine', instructing her to read the introduction, which details the author staying in a mental asylum before vanishing'. Whilst staying at the Embassy Hotel in Bayswater Road, London, according to Rob Jovanovic's biography, Edwards removed some books and videos from his bag. These included a copy of the play Equus. He wrapped them carefully in a box with a note that said: "I love you". He then decorated the box like a birthday present and decorated the outside of it with collages and literary quotations. These included a picture of a Germanic-looking house and Bugs Bunny. The package was addressed to a "Jo".
BornRichard James Edwards
22 December 1967
BlackwoodCaerphillyWales
Disappeared1 February 1995 (aged 27)
Cardiff, Wales

8. Dorothy Arnold:

Dorothy Harriett Camille Arnold was born into a wealthy family in 1884. She was the daughter of the head of an import company and the niece of Supreme Court Justice, Rufus Peckham. At two o'clock on the afternoon of December 12, 1910, she stood talking to a girlfriend outside Brentano's bookshop, then located at Fifth Avenue and Twenty-seventh Street in New York City. A moment later she vanished, never to be seen again—at least never by anyone whom both recognized her and acknowledged her existence to the world. She was educated at Bryn Mawr and was an aspiring writer at the time of her disappearance.
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BornDorothy Harriet Camille Arnold
July 1, 1885
New York CityNew York, U.S.
DisappearedDecember 12, 1910 (aged 25)
Manhattan, New York, U.S.

9. Jean Spangler:


Jean Elizabeth Spangler was born in Seattle, Washington on September 2, 1923, and was an American dancer, model, and bit-part actress in Hollywood films and early television. She mysteriously disappeared on October 7, 1949, at the age of 26. Spangler was a divorcee and had a daughter, Christine Louise Benner, with her ex-husband Dexter Benner. On October 7, 1949, Spangler left her home in Los Angeles where she lived with her mother and daughter at about 5 pm. Spangler's mother was out of town at the time visiting family. Spangler left her daughter in the care of her sister-in-law, Sophie, and told her that she was going to meet with Dexter to talk about a late child support payment and then she was going to do work on a movie set. A clerk at a store near Jean's home is the last person believed to have seen her. The clerk said that it appeared Jean was waiting for someone. There have been no confirmed sightings of her since. The next day Sophie filed a missing person report with the police. Authorities checked at the studios where Jean worked and found that none of them had any work in progress with Jean and that in fact, none were even open the evening of October 7th when she disappeared.
Jean Spangler pictured in 1949 before she went missing. Picture: Bettmann/Corbis
Jean Spangler pictured in 1949 before she went missing. Picture: Bettmann/CorbisSource: Supplied

The note addressed to ‘Kirk’ found in Jean Spangler’s purse.
The note addressed to ‘Kirk’ found in Jean Spangler’s purse. Source: Supplied
Jean Spangler̢۪s mysterious last note.
Jean Spangler’s mysterious last note.Source: Supplied
Not surprisingly, the press leaped on the story — a missing Hollywood starlet proved too delicious to avoid — and quickly posited many theories: that she was killed by the mafia after an affair with noted mobster Dave Ogul, who disappeared two days after Spangler; that she died during a botched abortion, with her purse placed in a public space in order to suggest something more sinister at play; and — most salaciously of all — that she was a victim of the same murderer who killed Elizabeth Short, dubbed the “Black Dahlia” by press, in 1947.
BornJean Elizabeth Spangler
September 2, 1923
SeattleWashingtonU.S.
DisappearedOctober 7, 1949 (aged 26)
Los AngelesCalifornia, U.S.

10. Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose:

If Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose Died in Crash, Why the Spying, Asks Family: 10 Developments
Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose is the forgotten hero of India's freedom struggle. Once an integral part of the Congress, he broke with Mahatma Gandhi and Jawaharlal Nehru and fought bitterly with Sardar Patel. Bose rejected non-violence and joined up with the Japanese and the Nazis to fight the British in World War II. He was no Nazi himself, but he believed that the only hope for Indian independence lay in the defeat of the British Empire. As we know, the British and their allies actually won the Second World War. But even as the British army was closing in, the Japanese announced that Bose died in a plane crash. But did he, really? To this day millions of Indians continue to believe that Bose survived and escaped the advancing British army. Indian politics have always been filled with drama that we have come to enjoy sadistically. It has never disappointed us before and I am sure it will not change in the next decade or so. Presenting you yet another controversy that has stirred the nation for more than 70 years. The famous theory behind his disappearance was that on his way to Russia on August 18, 1945, the plane he was traveling in, Japanese Army Air Force Mitsubishi Ki-21 bomber, had engine problems and crashed in Taiwan. He died of third-degree burns. His body was cremated in two days and his ashes were kept in Renkoji Temple in Tokyo, Japan. This was disagreed by his followers and relatives.

Netaji didn't die in the plane crash. It was a theory floated to facilitate his escape to the Soviet Union. Japanese intelligence agencies had floated the theory so that Bose can safely escape to the Soviet Union," claimed Maj Gen G D Bakshi (retd), author of the book "Bose: The Indian Samurai - Netaji and the INA Military Assessment".

BornSubhas Chandra Bose
23 January 1897
CuttackBritish India
Disappeared18 August 1945 (aged 48)

November 25, 2018

Happiness and peace are not the same..

Happiness and peace are not the same:



We are always confused to understand the difference between happiness and peace. We always like to be happy without peace. We all want to increase happiness forever in our lives. But the truth is that In our mind without peace, eternal happiness is not valuable to us. For an example, We want to be happy depending on getting a job, relationship, success, money, name/fame, car, house, the behavior of others etc. These are just stimulus which creates a response in the mind depending on our mind programming. Happiness depends on a variety of thoughts. Through different means, whether it’s through possessions, through objects, through the property, through people, through achievements. Just keep asking yourself, “Why do I want this?” “And this?”
If you ask someone, “What do you want?” They would say, “Success.”
“Why do you want success?” “Because it makes me feel happy.”
“Why do you want to buy this?” They say, “It makes me and my family feel happy.” “What do you get out of this relationship?” “Happiness.” So finally, everyone is looking for that one word "HAPPINESS". this happiness is momentary. Like a kid playing with a toy, and when it breaks, he needs to have another.So what are we searching for? If we are looking for happiness, then it should be permanent.Truly, perpetual is generally imperative. On the off chance that it is something that I like, that I want, and if it's something that comes normally to me, at that point it won't be reliant on whatever else outside. Supposing that it's reliant on something, at that point it can never be constant.Now the question is How might you have something you want and not be needy? It's very simple, In case you're searching for it outside someplace, at that point we are reliant on something. Suppose I feel better if the climate is pleasant. At that point, my inclination great is reliant on the climate. happiness without a desire is called PEACE. Now I am talking about Peace, where you also can get unlimited Happiness. Where you can remove your mental stress. That is most likely one of the most established conviction frameworks that we have been living with for quite a while, in light of the fact that we thought satisfaction is to be "got" from outside. Regardless of whether it's from accomplishments, or from individuals, or from whatever we do. "I'm doing this with the goal that I will feel upbeat" was dependably the condition. "At the point when it's set, and it's done in the correct way, I will feel upbeat." Obviously, the reliance is on having the demonstration performed in the correct way. Appropriate from youth, the tyke is prepared by the guardians to feel: "When you get great checks or play out this, I will feel cheerful." "When you look great, I will feel Happy." First, let’s see where we are dependent. Let’s begin with the simplest layers. These are deep layers — dependence on performance or people — but the simplest dependency — which we experience the whole day — is on objects. “I will feel happy when I buy a new car . . . or a new property.” Even a simple thing: “I’m happy when I go shopping.” Now the question may arise among you that, What’s wrong in this? Isn’t this natural? You will feel happy when you have a new car, but is it the new car that is giving you happiness which is important. “I will feel happy when I have a new car.” Which means, if I don’t, then it’s a question mark. It additionally implies that ten days not far off, if the car gets a little scratch, or a little knock, of course, my satisfaction will get influenced. Since I have adapted myself into trusting that the car is giving me satisfaction — which is not true.You buy a new car, it could be the most expensive car in the world. You sit in the car; it's exceptionally decent, extremely agreeable. It's the body. It has great seats, a flawless music framework, a ground-breaking motor, intense A/C . . . Physical solace. You are happy with sitting in the car, thus you let yourself know "you're feeling better." Just around then, assume you get a phone call . . . saying something unsavory has happened someplace at home. Will you still be happy? Be that as it may, You are as yet agreeable. You are still in the car. The car was intended to give you physical solace, and it will give you physical solace — regardless. Anything which is physical is designed to give us physical comfort. We told ourselves, “This gives us happiness.” Here the happiness is depending on your physical comfort. This kind of happiness is always increased and you never peaceful in your mind. We were conditioned into it right from childhood. So we’ve grown up with it. Now we need to question our belief system. The happiness of your physical comfort is not constant. It does not bring peace to your mind. The motivation behind why there is so little satisfaction on the planet is the reliance. Satisfaction isn't reliant on 'anything' or 'anybody' or found 'anyplace.' We continue deferring our bliss until the point when things are perfect in our life. We figure we will be upbeat later on and after that ask why we are not cheerful at this point. Happiness is just conceivable when we can acknowledge everybody as they may be, at each minute, in each circumstance. That implies a conclusion to judging or opposing others, a conclusion to whining and faulting, a conclusion to condemning and controlling and a conclusion to contending with anybody. Happiness implies the enlivening and acknowledgment of self-obligation. It is just when we pick considerations and emotions that are lined up with our actual nature of virtue, peace, and love that we can move – from asking for sharing; from clutching giving up; from desires to acknowledgment; from the past and the future to being in the now. We can make a real existence of happiness, satisfaction, and joy since we have the decision and the power. Happiness is a choice. This kind of Happiness is internal, it is not depending on physical comfort or any other objects which are external. This kind of Happiness increases your Peace level in your mind.

November 25, 2018

Healthy Relationships

Healthy Relationships:

Relationships are the place comfort, happiness, love and regard stream naturally. But some of the time there is by all accounts conflict, pain and hatred primarily in view of a portion of our profound established conviction frameworks, which should be checked. Relationships can be agreeable on the off chance that we make a move in our cognizance. I get got some information about what a sound relationship resembles, or should resemble. The simple answer is that it appears to be unique for each couple. Notwithstanding, I understood quite a while back that on the off chance that we didn't grow up with guardians who had awesome methods for identifying with each other, that there was for all intents and purposes no place else to swing to locate a sound couple to gain from. This leaves the ways that cheerful and solid couples relate as insider facts that a large number of us don't get the opportunity to encounter. So I trust that the accompanying article gives some broad thoughts on how solid couples work, in spite of the fact that the points of interest will be up to each couple to fill in.


Keys of Healthy Relationships:


1.From speaking well to thinking well: Relationships rise above words and behavior,they rely upon the vitality trade of considerations and feelings.If our words are polite,our conduct is obliging; when our musings are judge-mental or basic, at that point we are making a powerless foundation.If our words are of love,but our contemplations are of harmed or rejection,then we are emanating vibrations of agony to the relationship.
2.From blame to personal responsibility: The most widely recognized conviction is that another person is in charge of how we feel. Despite the idea of the occasion or sharpness of the words proposed to insult, our reaction is forever our own creation. Their conduct is the stimulus; how we think, feel and carry on is our response. We have the opportunity to pick our reaction. We are not machines who respond consequently and say, "Obviously I will get angry, naturally I will get injured"; there is nothing obvious, we have a decision always. We need to move from a robotized method for responding to staying alert that regardless of whether we are hurt, it is our creation and we have a decision — to what extent we wish to remain that way. We can pick a reaction of stability, calm and love.
3.From expectations to acceptance: When we have expectations, it is inward programming: "I need you to be my direction. At exactly that point I will be upbeat, else I get injured and you are the reason for my hurt."Our desires depend on our viewpoints of what is correct which depends on our samskaras. Give us a chance to recollect that everybody has been on an adventure of numerous births in various conditions, and they may convey samskaras totally not quite the same as our own. They will be the way their samskaras enable them to be. Trust might be normal for us and, therefore,is our desire, however on the off chance that the other individual has confronted double-crossing in some lifetime, for them, trust is related with agony and consequently, the question is common. Tolerating individuals implies notwithstanding when their samskaras are not our way, we don't get bothered in light of the fact that we comprehend their voyage. This soundness emanates love and regard and engages them; else we transmit hurt and dismissal to ourselves and to them.
4.From holding on to letting go: Regularly we go into significant lots of quietness after a conflict. We feel let down and stay hurt or furious for hours, months or even years. The times of negative quiet drain soul control and furthermore influence the youngsters if there should be an occurrence of couples. We trust that quietness gives us the space to mend our self before we come to typical. However, a silence, in which both are disturbed just develops the wound. Differences of supposition might be there, but let us not stop talking; let us return to ordinary immediately. Being typical is recuperating for those included and for all living in a similar domain.
5.From seeking to giving: We enhance our lives radically when we come into connections for giving,not wanting.If we need love,trust,respect, happiness,let us offer it to them.Let us move from — "give me respect,trust me,understand me"to "I respect,understand and trust you."Relationship is never about give and take.It is constantly about give-give-and-give.While giving,we are the first to get as the vitality courses through us to other people.
By giving,we complete reliance and desires from others. Solid connections are a wellspring of energy.Just like the sun lights up each side of the planet,harmonious connections light up each part of life — spiritual,mental,emotional and physical.The preeminent relationship starts when a youngster is in the mother's belly and gets parents thoughts as vibrations.Vibrations of dismissal or stress gotten by a tyke at that arrange keep going for a considerable length of time and may even prompt misery.
6. Positive Interactions: Research demonstrates that connections are the most fulfilling when there are quantitatively more constructive communications with the other individual than negative. For a few connections, there might be an extensive number of negative associations, yet as long as the quantity of positive cooperations is much higher, fulfillment will stay high. For additional on this, take in a few fundamentals of correspondence.
7.Solve Problems: There is a considerable measure of unsolvable issues seeing someone that will keep on going through, paying little heed to arrangements, and individuals in sound connections discover approaches to decrease these contentions however much as could be expected. In any case, there is likewise a lot of issues that can be explained, and very working couples will effectively trade off and discover answers for those.
8.Meeting Basic Needs: The essential needs that everybody has seeing someone are brotherhood, warmth, and passionate help. Individuals in solid connections are centered around meeting these and additionally other extraordinary necessities that the other individual has, and they will develop to be better at this. Perused more about those essential relationship needs.
9.Acceptance & Respect: This implies tolerating what we have come to think about the other individual and proceeding to treat him/her with deference. When we truly become more acquainted with somebody, we discover things that are not so incredible about them, and they discover the equivalent about us. Proceeding to hold the other individual in a positive light (and you being held in a positive light as well!), are basic practices in sound connections. Moreover, individuals in the most joyful connections likewise speak positively about one another in social circumstances and furthermore endeavor to respect the inclinations the other individual has for things.
10.Reciprocity: This implies the two individuals in the relationship are chipping away at this stuff. On the off chance that just a single individual is taking an enthusiasm, tolerating and regarding, assuming the best about, addressing the others' needs, giving positive communications, and fixing breaks, at that point the relationship likely has bigger issues that should be investigated.